No Longer Long-Lost
Tuesday, March 2, 2010 at 02:00PM
A door to my past opened up and let him in. My cousin, Chris. Though our maternal grandmothers were sisters, and we grew up within driving distance of each other as young children, Chris and I have been apart for the majority of our lives. We saw eachother only on a handful of occasions, but I remember studying his school pictures in small frames over the years at my Aunt Loris' house. There was something mystical about him... this boy who was born after the death of a young son. A brother he didn't know. Chris was the light that appeared in the dark. I knew only that much about him. And decades passed.
Thanks to our cousin, Laura, we met for lunch during my last visit to New York and within an instant he was familiar. Less like a long-lost cousin and more like a big brother. He teaches me things like how to navigate the subway, use the clone stamp tool in Photoshop, and find cool apps for my iPhone. He tracks down my lost luggage and refills my glass of water when it gets low. He suggests the restaurants, asks questions, and guides me over thick chunks of snow along the streets of New York. Observant and full of thought. He makes me laugh so hard that it makes me cry. Had he not been my cousin, I would have picked him for a friend.


Reader Comments (6)
Is it completely shallow of me to note that he's also very cute?
what sweet commentary. it really brings out the photo. thanks for sharing :O)
I want one.
I too, know Chris Ozanian. He is a master of the un-obvious (things everyone should know but don't). He is a master planner (A man with a plan at all times). He is a master-bater (a person who puts the best forward so that others may follow him). I have always been in awe as he: Found the best parking spots, took me to the best bars, talked to the most beautiful women and played a mean guitar hero. I guess he's just a bit of a master.
I would pick him too!
I have known Chris for about 20 years now and although we lost touch for about 10 years of that 20, I have to say it's like we never did. He has always been my wall to bounce things off, my rent-a-date when I so can't go stag, and just a plain ol' BFF. He's one of the kindest, down to earth people I know. I'm so blessed to have found him after all these years apart and to have him in my life. We love you Chris!!!